Well, I don't know how to put this, but after being so accomodating for so long, I have finally come to terms with the fact that Ms B's behaviour in bed, is......hmm, let's just call it unconventional.
Despite my patience, I don't think she will be able to change.
Ever since Ms B and I first consumated our relationship, I was quite struck by her imobility in bed.
She is completely non-tactile, and she just doesn't move.
This is not to say that she doesn't enjoy sex, which she does, but the act of sex for us is not based on mutual reciprocation.
I am the active party and she simply lies there and enjoys it.
I have tried encouraging her to simply touch me during the act, so that we can experience the intimacy of being together, but try as she may, it seems as though it just makes her very uncomfortable. It goes without saying of course that other sexual pleasures of a more engaging nature are out of the question.
Ms B also considers full-mouth kissing as unhygenic, and simply cannot bring herself to kiss in that manner.
This inability to be tactile is however not a hallmark of our relationship outside of the bedroom.
Ms B loves to hold hands, lie on the couch toghether, and cuddle each other late at night.
This sexual dynamic is something that of course I must live with, but it is uncoventional and not what I expected.
Now this of course begs the question as to whether the multitude of Chinese women who wear sexually provocative clothing also behave in such a non-tactile manner in bed.
This I do not have an answer for, but it is an interesting question.