Well, even though we have technically reconciled, it seems that every second day I have to put out a new spot fire.
I do not seem to be able to get any respite within this relationship.
My wife has now come to the conclusion that our son needs to be taken to China and left there for four years, so that he can learn Mandarin proper.
When my son was just born, we went through a similar episode where my wife insisted that we send the newborn to China with her mother, to be raised in China for the first eight years of his life. She argued that this would free us to make more money and not be tied down by having to raise a child.
I said "No" back then, despite it causing a lot of arguments, and I am saying "No" again.